Predators are so good at coming across as charming and wonderful, so any little feeling of discomfort we're feeling relating to potential red flags leaves us thinking that *we* must be "just imagining things". I'm so sorry you had to deal with these kinds of people, but you 100% didn't do anything wrong.
Yes, and the double nature of abusers is one of the most dangerous aspects. The victim sees the true side and the rest of the world another. This confuses the victim and often makes them question their own judgement. In adiditon, it also makes it harder for the victim to be believed when or if they try to tell anybody. So, anyone who finds their partner to be a Mr Jekyll and Mr Hide - leave as quietly and as soon as possible. Sadly, that is often very difficult in reality - because the perpetrator has cut off access to all escape routes and help resources. But it is not impossible, and everyone deserves a life of freedom, love and support.
This is great. These are exactly the kinds of things that need to be shared and discussed more often so people can be aware and recognize red flags. Thanks for this!
I wish I’d seen this list when I was a kid. I might have had an easier life 😢
Predators are so good at coming across as charming and wonderful, so any little feeling of discomfort we're feeling relating to potential red flags leaves us thinking that *we* must be "just imagining things". I'm so sorry you had to deal with these kinds of people, but you 100% didn't do anything wrong.
Keep doing what you’re doing. It’s giving me heart.
Thank you so much; I really appreciate that!
Yes, and the double nature of abusers is one of the most dangerous aspects. The victim sees the true side and the rest of the world another. This confuses the victim and often makes them question their own judgement. In adiditon, it also makes it harder for the victim to be believed when or if they try to tell anybody. So, anyone who finds their partner to be a Mr Jekyll and Mr Hide - leave as quietly and as soon as possible. Sadly, that is often very difficult in reality - because the perpetrator has cut off access to all escape routes and help resources. But it is not impossible, and everyone deserves a life of freedom, love and support.
Thanks for sharing. I know one or two😁
This is great. These are exactly the kinds of things that need to be shared and discussed more often so people can be aware and recognize red flags. Thanks for this!
Great advice 👍